SOULMATES! =)
Yes....Valentines has just passed. I know some of you folks may not experience the best lover's day yet. But i tell you what, there's no need to rush..trust me, have faith and sooner or later it worth the wait.
I've been to my church service last Sunday and there's a special short class about "Love relationship". I learned a lot from there. Thanks to the church and people who organized it =). I would like to share a few points to ponder, in order to get the one who are made for me and you. So let's start!
For the pass few years...I've been wondering and asking myself a lot...
Who is he? How do i know he's the one for me?
Why i get broken hearted many times?
Why does this relationship hurts?
Always not working out? Why im the one who always wants this the best, but not him?
When will i find him who are made for me?
Will he be perfect for me?
I like this guy, but why doesn't he?
Why he's just using me for granted?
Etc......
Always remember, God's plan for you is always amazing. And he always wanted the best for you. First thing first, if you are dealing with a bad relationship with the wrong guy, it's time to let go. It's not easy, i know cause I've been there (6 yrs with a wrong guy). Have faith darls, God is waiting to give you the best. Letting go, and surrender your life to Him, that's all you need.
1st point:
- Does God exist in the picture?
- this is one of the most important points to ponder. If you find a guy or a girl who attracts you, ask yourself this question. Does God exist in that picture, in their lives? If yes, it will shows to you perfectly. You'll find her or him talking in God's way with love, caring, humbleness, honest and God's whisper.
- doesn't need to seek or chase them but to DISCOVER. It is our job to discover whether he/she is the person that God want's us to be with or the one who are made for us. Pray about them. Ask for guidance. Get yourself ready for the next step.
- never seek for satisfaction in a relationship. Never be in a relationship because of lust, money, praise, or anything else that will only leads to distraction.
- never make a relationship because of feeling lonely, peer pressure, rushed or with a recessive feelings.
2nd point:
- Things to do while waiting =)
- Personal development. Continue to grow yourself. In everything, studies, works or even in spiritually.
Be humble, love more, grow your confidence, help others. Learn something new, etc.
- strengthen your life before meeting him/her or before marriage. Never brings unhealthy lifestyle into it.
- Be wise, in your prayer ask His guidance, never rush.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-15, A Time for Everything
"There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven ~
2 A time to give birth, and a time to die; A time to plant, and a time to uproot what is planted.
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; A time to tear down, and a time to build up.
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; A time to mourn, and a time to dance.
5 A time to throw stones, and a time to gather stones; A time to embrace, and a time to shun embracing.
6 A time to search, and a time to give up as lost; A time to keep, and a time to throw away.
7 A time to tear apart, and a time to sew together; A time to be silent, and a time to speak.
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; A time for war, and a time for peace.
9 What profit is there to the worker from that in which he toils? 10 I have seen the task which God has given the sons of men with which to occupy themselves. 11 He has made everything appropriate in its time. He has also set eternity in their heart, yet so that man will not find out the work which God has done from the beginning even to the end. 12 I know that there is nothing better for them than to rejoice and to do good in one's lifetime; 13 moreover, that every man who eats and drinks sees good in all his labor, it is the gift of God. 14 I know that everything God does will remain forever; there is nothing to add to it and there is nothing to take from it, for God has so worked that men should fear Him. 15 That which is has been already, and that which will be has already been, for God seeks what has passed by."
dearie Darls,
i hope this post will give you a little bit of something that can help you through your love life. And i believe you and me have learn something today. May i see you again in the next post ya.Thanks for dropping by. Lotsssssss of love!
Love;
Darl Diann xoxo
for somethings in life you really cannot find the answer but god work in miracle ways, I know for sure as I meet my darling hubby when least expected it.
ReplyDeleteThanks Nava for the comments. Yes, there's alot of questions in our head but yet again, sooner or later we'll understand. I learned and wanna share. Have a good day! God bless you and hubby.
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